In my previous post you could read how I got into chastity, why I wasn‘t able to live out this fantasy within my former relationships, and how you can turn a fantasy into reality, with the right person.But today I would like to talk a little bit more in-depth about how I told my girfriend I’m into chastity, and how I got her into it as well!I think when you want to mention a more kinky topic to your partner, you better start slow. I told my girlfriend first, how happy I‘m with her and how much I appreciate our very intimate, loving and open relationship. My girlfriend loves kitchy phrases so she would literally melt away hearing that.But this might not work for everyone! Simply because every person is different. But what I always do say, no matter the topic, is so appreciate things! Appreciate your partner as well as your relationship! And never take it for granted.After that I would slowly introduce the kink to her. I told her that I found this sexy toy that might be fun for both of us.On a side note, we both are switches, so we both like to be sub and dom to some extend. She was more of a submissive type in the beginning, but slowly she would start to enjoy being dominant, just like me, naturally.Something that suprised me extremly and almost made me explode, was something she said within one of our love making sessions.Out of the blue, she said ‚You are not allowed to cum before I do‘ You can‘t believe how hard I got hearing that!Nevertheless, to get back to the original topic. I would start telling her I would like to play with a chastity device, but before asking for any response, I would immediately explain her why, in a soft and understand why.Not everyone knows chastity! So you can‘t just throw all types of dirty things at your partner!I didn’t want to be in chastity because I don‘t want to have sex with her, or to masturbate less. But instead to gift myself to her and give her full control over me!Obviously she would ask all types of questions! But that‘s good! Because she got curious!I don‘t want to make this text even longer than it already is. So if you want me to continue with the questions she asked, and how I answered them, let me know!I hope I could help some of you ot there with this post! Never forget, take things slow! And explain kinks in a way that might be also really exciting for your partner!I‘m sorry for any spelling or grammar errors. I‘m not a native english speaker. Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n