For some quick background, I’m married, been married for well over a decade and lately our sex life has been on the decline. Don’t cry for me thou, when I say decline I’m talking about once or twice a week instead of the three to four times a week we used to do it.Before I had even heard of orgasm denial or found this sub the wife came up with an idea that instead of the 2 to 4 orgasms she normally received during sex that if she limits it to just one maybe she’ll be hornier and we’ll have more sex. Sounds like a good idea so we tried it and didn’t really notice any difference but I was super turned on by the idea of not allowing her to orgasm at all every other time so I spoke to her about it and she was willing to give it a try.. and she didn’t like it and I think it made her more upset and didn’t increase her libido at all.At this time I started searching online and found this amazing sub and learned about edging and how some of you go for not only days but weeks or even a month+ so I talked to her about it but wanted to keep it mild. I asked her to edge 4 times during sex and then stop herself from orgasm and after 4 times I’d let her come. So she agreed and then hated it. The next time she said she never wanted to do it again.Oh well, we’ve found common ground and a couple few months ago she came up with the idea of letting me letting me just do a quick doggy style in the morning so I can orgasm right before she showers with the understanding that if she wants to have sex I will put out no matter what that night. Not quite the long term orgasm denial I wanted to have but it’s improved our sex life and I love the idea of just using her like that and it makes me hornier as well. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n