At some point within my life, I found out about chastity. And as many of you, the thought of giving up all control to your partner really turned me on.I never saw chastity as a tool to improve masturbatory behaviour. To be honest, I have pretty good self-control, so if I would decide to not masturbate for a while, I simply wouldn‘t do it.What really got me excited about chastity, is the new dynamic you can enjoy with your partner. Letting her/him decide when you get unlocked and when you get to cum. As well as the fact, of having a dirty little secret, nobody besides you and your partner knows about. And last but not least, countless possibilities to tease one another.Unfortunately, this was only a fantasy for a very long time. With my previous relationships I wouldn‘t have the courage to mention my secret fantasy. Not so much because of the kink itself, but in fact because I simply didn‘t feel a 100% comfortable with this person. This way I wouldn‘t open up to my previous relationships completely.Now with my current girlfriend things changed drastically. We are in a incredible intimate relationship, we are best friends, can talk about literally everything, and we have a fantastic sex life. I know people say such things quite often, but I truly mean it from the bottom of my heart. I‘m super happy with this girl, and this mature, loving and happy relationship.Because of that I was finally able to ask my partner about this long-time fantasy of mine. The chastity kink.People use to give out the same old advice. But to be real with you? It works!Be open about your interests, kinks and fantasies with your partner! If you feel truly comfortable and you know your partner well, just go for it!At worst, she or him will tell you that‘s nothing they are into. But that‘s okey, and you need to respect that.But for me, things turned out great! My girlfriend got really curious about chastity and she wants us to get a cage for me!I‘m so excited for everything coming up! And I‘m happy to share any insides with you guys!Lastly, one final tip. Take it slow! And don‘t throw anything to crazy at your partner, explain chastity in a interesting and newbie type of way! Don‘t go full pervert-mode from the start. This is reason why some of you might fail, turning your fantasy into reality.I‘m sorry for any spelling or grammar errors. I‘m not a native english speaker. Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n