New to the subject, how do I tell my bf?

In the past month my bf and I have been apart and took denial as kind of a challenge. I failed pretty soon but I discovered I might be into this kind of thing. It really turns me on and I wish I could keep it up once he’s back (mid September).The “problem” is that he’s always been really attentive and does not feel satisfied untill I am too. I talked to him about it, he thinks sex has no point if I don’t get to finish. I proposed him more bjs and anal, which he seems to like but he’s still not quite convinced.I don’t want to push or anything (he was vanilla since the beginning, we made a lot of progress so far and I’m really grateful, and I don’t want him to feel uncomfy or anything), but I’d like to get a second chance for a conversation about this.Has someone of you already found themselves in such a situation? Is there anything that could eventually make this conversation easier? I really want to try but I also want to respect his boundaries.Thank you very much for reading! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n