Long story short: I’m currently doing a year worth of denial and at the moment my rules state that each month I’m allowed to ask for a ruin. That being said, I know some people consider ruins as orgasms and others don’t. Eventually I would like replace regular orgasms entirely with ruins in the long term.I’d love to hear people’s thoughts on this in general!View Poll female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n