I need some help getting started

Hi! I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit for me – I just read the rules (because I wasn’t raised by wolves), and I’m a trans man so I am a man, but, to no one’s surprise, I would be rather uncomfortable going to the male chastity subreddit.So I hope this is okay. If it isn’t, I am 100% okay with this post being deleted and I completely understand.But to the post –Hi! I’m Seth. I’m not super new to edging, but I’m new to the idea of edging after deciding not to come and sticking to that decision. I grew up in a conservative christian church, and I’m 28, and it’s only been in the last few years that I’ve stopped feeling weird or guilty after coming.And it’s only been in the last six months that my orgasms have been top notch.That being said, the idea of denial is scorchingly hot, both self denial and giving someone else the power to decide whether I come (and if so, whether it will be a ruin or not). I love the idea of leaving the decision of whether I come to an anonymous forum such as reddit or tumblr.But I know what I would be missing out on when I purposefully deny myself. And obviously, if this isn’t for me, it’s not for me. It can be a fantasy that turns me on, and I don’t have to actually do it. But I want to try, so I’m wondering what people have done to get started.When you first started exploring edging and denial, did you go no-touch? Did you just edge? Did you try to go X hours before coming/edge a certain number of times?If it matters to your answer, I usually don’t like pain beyond spanking and I don’t like touching my chest. I’m not super fond of any type of punishment because failure makes me feel very bad.I’m looking for any and all ideas, advice, encouragement, whatever you’ve got! Thanks šŸ™‚ I hope everyone is having a good year so far! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Pls Punish Me

Ok so I am on a new denial period(started Jan 2) I don’t know how long it will last. My last one was about 2-3 months. I was edging this afternoon and like a slut I almost went over the edge. I deserve a punishment(s). Pls punishment me…I am 18 Black, chubby, C/D cup breast, and live at home My only limits are public, scat&pee, permanent, blood, pics/vids, illegal and other people female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Update (kind of)

I posted on here a while back about wanting to practice edging, I’ve deleted it now but from the responses I’ve got I learned a bit! Thank you for the encouragement. There’s a lot of things that scare me about doing this, you have to take attention to detail and some keep up w/ that of others, and I find that kind of wild. I’m an open person in conversation, I am submissive but the way I talk could be considered aggressive. Some times I feel like I’m doing it wrong for not completely adhering to my masters wishes, or flat out doing my own thing.. I’ve learned so much about my body, and what makes me cum faster/harder. If you’ve made it this far.. what are some things that personally benefits you from edging? I’d like to hear why shit works for some people, I’m not too serious into all of this but if I find more pros then cons I might write a routine out of it. Thank you in advance! šŸ™‚ female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Orgasm got Canceled

( Today ) on the 23rd day of my unknown period of denial I played with myself without asking for permission….( I was too horny. The longest denial I ever did was 11 days. Now it’s more than double of that and during this time I only had one ruined orgasm which Sir rewarded me on the New Year’s Day)After I confessed, Sir told me that he actually was planning to let me cum on Thursday(which is just in 2 days!) but of course that’s CANCELLED nowNow I am on NO TOUCH for two days until further notice…The next cum date remains unknown.(it’s midnight where I am and my panties are soaking wet I can’t sleep šŸ˜µšŸ’¦What can I do to keep my hands off my greedy pussy? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n