Hi! I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit for me – I just read the rules (because I wasn’t raised by wolves), and I’m a trans man so I am a man, but, to no one’s surprise, I would be rather uncomfortable going to the male chastity subreddit.So I hope this is okay. If it isn’t, I am 100% okay with this post being deleted and I completely understand.But to the post –Hi! I’m Seth. I’m not super new to edging, but I’m new to the idea of edging after deciding not to come and sticking to that decision. I grew up in a conservative christian church, and I’m 28, and it’s only been in the last few years that I’ve stopped feeling weird or guilty after coming.And it’s only been in the last six months that my orgasms have been top notch.That being said, the idea of denial is scorchingly hot, both self denial and giving someone else the power to decide whether I come (and if so, whether it will be a ruin or not). I love the idea of leaving the decision of whether I come to an anonymous forum such as reddit or tumblr.But I know what I would be missing out on when I purposefully deny myself. And obviously, if this isn’t for me, it’s not for me. It can be a fantasy that turns me on, and I don’t have to actually do it. But I want to try, so I’m wondering what people have done to get started.When you first started exploring edging and denial, did you go no-touch? Did you just edge? Did you try to go X hours before coming/edge a certain number of times?If it matters to your answer, I usually don’t like pain beyond spanking and I don’t like touching my chest. I’m not super fond of any type of punishment because failure makes me feel very bad.I’m looking for any and all ideas, advice, encouragement, whatever you’ve got! Thanks š I hope everyone is having a good year so far! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n