Month: November 2020

Assignments

[F19] Does anyone know where I can find daily assignments to complete? or a sub with tasks? I’ve been a follower of this sub for a long time and I’ve dabbled in denial but nothing long term and I would really like to find tasks/assignments that I can do to get started. I’m a masochist and, among other things, I really enjoy nipple play, anal, edging, and bondage. I’m really sexually frustrated right now and I think the only way to fix that is by adding some more kink in my daily life and to limit my orgasm. Nothing turns me on more than denial, I just lack the self control to go through with long term. I’m hoping assignments or schedules will help with that. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

What are some issues you and your partner face during denial, and how do you communicate about them? (Discussion)

Denial can be super intense, especially since, for me at least, the longer I go without an orgasm, the deeper into sub space I get – and I tend to do relatively short periods of denial. I’ve had some rocky moments, and am learning how to communicate better while in a period of denial.Examples of challenging situations:(This list is non-exhaustive, and from a sub’s perspective. I’m sure there’s more than can be said from a dom’s side)Handling life stress without having release of orgasmMood swingsInability to focusVulnerability and insecurity while in sub spaceBeing extra needy for attention (especially challenging when dom is busy)Having a dip in sex drive despite denialStress around not knowing when being allowed to cum nextPhysical limitations (e.g. not being able to sleep, or muscle cramps)I’m curious, what issues have you and your partner faced, and what are some methods of communication you’ve found to keep things going smoothly? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n