Newbie edging questions

Hi, sorry if this isn’t the right place to post this – I don’t have progress pictures or anything.I recently got edged for the first time with the help of an internet friend. I loved it but am feeling a bit out of my depth and wanted to ask a little bit of advice before diving into more of it.Are there any safety considerations with edging? I felt so tense during it like I was going to burst. Is that normal? (and if it is how the hell do you guys stand it?)Any advice for solo edging? Until I had a partner to guide me I kept on uh… overshooting if I tried.I did a bit of chastity play with an ex (and have a cheap belt to prove it) – I suspect I’m asking the wrong crowd but do you get better results denying before or after edging? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n