This post is honestly just a bit of house keeping to make sure I solidify what my goals are and what my current denial situation looks like since I like to be organized and want to figure this all out in one post, getting your feedback as necessary. I’d really appreciate if you read all the way through this post (I realize it’s long, but it’s important to defining my denial once and for all) so you know how my denial will work, as well as being able to give me daily rules to follow on denial days.As I believe it’s been determined, I’m only allowed to cum on days I see my SO, and any other day I am to be fully denied, while teasing myself and stretching my tight little asshole with a nice plug. Perhaps I may also be allowed to cum on the odd day I can take a new plug up my ass (doesn’t happen often, maybe once every couple of months I get a new one. It could be a nice incentive to want to keep training my ass with new and/or larger plugs)?For the days I am denied, I need rules to follow to ensure I’m reminded that I’m denied. I have to admit, I have very bad self control, and as much as I want to touch myself and edge constantly, maybe very minimal edging/touching would be better to begin with and work up to more later on. So let’s come up with a small amount of touching/edging allowed a day, when it should be completed, how, etc… After that, I can still view porn and go no touch at other times throughout the day. Anyways, keeping my ass stuffed with a plug is enough of a reminder that I’m denied to make me crave an orgasm all day, trust me 😉 Speaking of which, perhaps some anal tasks each day could also be beneficial to help me keep training my ass. Perhaps anal kegels, edges, some light anal fucking with the plug when reinserting it, and anything else you deem appropriate? Sometimes just looking at my plugged ass and seeing the gape through the glass plug in the mirror also is enough to make me so desperate to cum. I’ve also toyed with the idea of giving myself anal douches (need to buy the supplies still) and trying to hold them in with my plug until I’m weak at the knees. Still not 100% sure I’d do that since bathroom play/scat is a limit, but what do you think of that idea? I’ve always wanted to hold something in with the plug. If you can think of something else to plug inside of me instead that wouldn’t be as messy would also be appreciated (please answer this one, I desperately want the plug to hold something inside me!).As for days I’m able to see the SO and allowed to cum, what should I do? I think I may allow myself an orgasm before seeing my parter (day of of course), just so I’m not so worked up that I cum within seconds of us just getting started. I’d like to still last a while for my SO, y’know? But to be allowed that orgasm before seeing them, what should I do before hand/morning of to deserve it? An alternative is that I’m allowed to only cum while with my SO, but then I don’t tease myself at all the day of getting to see them so I’m not as worked up. Which one should I go with? I also prefer not to use butt plugs the night before I see my SO and the day of seeing them. So those will be the only times I’m unplugged (keep this in mind if you think I should be allowed to cum before seeing my SO and have tasks for me).Finally, if you do think I should also be allowed to cum when I insert a new plug for the first time, what rules should I follow (keep in mind that once I cum, I don’t really like having a butt plug in until I’m aroused again)? Should I have used the plug a few times throughout the day first before I’m allowed to cum? I’d probably be making new posts asking how I should use the plug to train my ass to take it. It’s also important to note that these would be the only times I’m allowed to fully cum while also being plugged since days with the SO I’m not plugged. These orgasms would be the most intense of them all since it would be so rare that I get to cum while also plugged (a new, most likely larger plug as well for my ass to really wrap around and squeeze onto). So thoughts on being allowed to cum when using a new plug?If you’ve read the entire post, please start your comment with and uncommon symbol so I know you really did read the whole thing. Something like *, +, ~, etc… Thanks!Limits: Humiliation, pain, pics, embarrassment, general nudity (stripping in my house for extended periods [no longer than a couple minutes]), degradation, public nudity, scat, and bathroom play (includes ass to mouth).Toys: Butt plugsI really hope that this post wasn’t too boring. I know it wasn’t as exciting as other posts and went on for a while, but I believe if you read this entire post that you truly do care about my denial and that I make the most of it. Of course, things are subject to change, but I really want to try this out and see how it goes. Please help me flesh this out more with your comments. I want to enjoy this journey, and I hope you all can with me throughout updates and what not! My first true denial day will start tomorrow since I see the SO today, so let’s make this post count so I don’t keep flooding the sub with questions about my denial :)Thanks for reading, and hope to hear some great comments below! Please steer clear of my DMs and messages, unless we’ve used them together before, I probably won’t respond otherwise. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n
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