hey! this isn’t really sexy or anything, but i have no idea where else i’d ask this kind of question. i feel bad bringing it into r / advice or anything like that since it’s so nsfw, and it’s also really personal and i don’t trust such a big subreddit like r / advice. and i’ve seen others finding luck on this subreddit (i’m also a longtime lurker here & occasional poster so i kind of feel comfortable here if that makes sense?) so i figured i’d try here, since it has to do with my life as someone who partakes in orgasm denial. sorry in advance if this post doesn’t fit here!me (18f) and my girlfriend (ldr) have been interested in getting a lovesense product for us (i’d use it, she’d use it to use me). i love the idea of public play, and we’d seen other couples have great results with lovesense products. i was thinking of the lush 2, but i know that’s more g-spot stimulation. i’ve never been able to put something inside of me and feel any actual pleasure, just discomfort/pain, so i’m hesitant to buy it. i live in a really strict christian home, so it’s not like i ever had any chance to buy lube as i started learning how my body worked. (i could buy it now though via the power of grabbing the package before anyone else does). i’ve only experimented with clitoral stimulation. the only real experience i had with an actual dildo was just.. uncomfortable i guess? someone else was using it on me, and i mean. it wasn’t like painful? just very uncomfortable (i was wet already, but there was no lube on the toy). anyways, now that the oddly personal and somewhat embarrassing background information has been presented:has any woman had the same trouble with tightness? does this sound like something lube would solve? have any women dealt with the same problems?the lovesense ambi seems like it would solve my problem, but it also looks completely non-discrete with the way the handle kinda sticks out. also, i have no idea how it would stay put. has anyone had any experience with it?are there any bluetooth clitoral vibrators that people have found use in with public play?have people with tightness issues still found success with the lush 2?also this is more general but, what does g-spot stimulation feel like compared to clitoral?feel free to ask questions if i wasn’t clear enough with anything! again, sorry to the mods + viewers if this doesn’t fit here. also my gf is another lurker on this sub, so hi if you’re reading this. thank you so much in advance!! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n