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Last week I tried edging. Been playing around with myself since around December im 18. Last week i played once a day 45min-1hr. I held it the first day. Then later i went back to let it out. I came right before bed and was quite discouraged. I knew it wasn’t gonna be easy so i have myself that one pass as it was my first try. I am trained in acrobatics so i have pretty strong pelvic muscles already. Idk why this is so difficult. Day two i did it i didnt release nada. Day three did it again. Day four I didn’t get hard. Not even the slightest bit. Maybe im not playing long enough? I always use a vibrator just on my clit. Day five i had zero desire. Nothing. Haven’t played with myself since. If im just desensitized then I’ll wait it out. Im just struggling to get hard how does that happen exactly? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n