Month: May 2018

about halfway through his 90 days of denial he finally just came in his sleep – considering my response, what do you think?

I don’t know exactly how long it’s been because I can’t be bothered to keep count day-to-day like that. I know he can’t help counting the days (how pitiful) so I’ll make him come post the exact count later.I told him if he comes, the clock starts over, so every time he begs me to stop. He thanks me for not letting him come now. It got to the point where I barely stroke him for even a few minutes before he’s on the edge, wanting some release so badly but begging me to stop anyway. Around a week ago it started to seem likely he wasn’t going to make it, so I stopped giving his cock any physical contact at all. Now his daily teases is just worshiping my body, or some days it’s just letting him gawk at me.This morning he finally came in his sleep. Usually during denial stints I make him sleep with his hard cock pressed against my ass, but it seemed necessary to start making him sleep on his back so he won’t absent-mindedly rub himself on me or the bed, which would surely make him erupt. Even on his back with no physical contact he wakes up in the night to the feeling of his cock throbbing. But I guess the body inevitably has to relieve some pressure, and this morning he woke up to his cock uselessly spilling watery cum all over him. He said it felt almost like nothing–like a perfectly ruined orgasm.Anyway, I’m of two minds about this. On the one hand, I’m pissed he was too weak to do what I told him to and I’m apt to start the clock over at day one. But on the other hand, what happened pleases me. If his body is going to take care of itself that way, and if it doesn’t cause him any real pleasure, I don’t see any reason why he should need to have a real orgasm, or even a ruined one, ever. Sure, “never” is a long time and I could decide one day that I want that part of our relationship back, but right now the experience of denying him until he involuntarily erupted for no reason reveals to me that long term, indefinite denial is a real possibility.The more I think about it the more I feel like we’ve just been playing a little game to practice, and now it’s time to move on to the real thing. We haven’t used a cage before, but it seems like it might be necessary if we’re going to be serious about this.Anyway, what do you think? Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n